A wedding gown is part of a brides love story. It’s much more than pieces of fabric. In society today with so many modern women, very few women carve out time to feel like a magical princess. However, there is the one time when she wears the wedding gown of her dreams.
I loved my gown so much, I planned the exact day it would be worn again right after my wedding. It was worn the following year, a month before my first anniversary. I was so anxious to do it. I called my photography mentor a few months after my wedding and booked the fun shoot.
Here are 10 things you could do with your wedding gown, post wedding:
- Have it cleaned and placed in a shadow box to hang on the wall
- Transform it into a regular dress
- Preserve it for your daughter
- Wear it for an anniversary portrait
- Donate it to a charity for breast cancer or a bride that can’t afford to buy a nice gown
- Sell it to a consignment shop such as, Le Dress Boutique, Discount Wedding and Evening Dresses
- You could trash your dress for awesome photos
- Become a bridal model and showcase your gown
- Rent it out for bridal marketing images
- Keep it and store it away from natural light This was such a fun first anniversary session!
Photo by: Moreland Photography
Today’s subject is about the type of lighting equipment you need to create YouTube videos or videos for anything. Do you need to have the latest and greatest lighting equipment? Some of you think you need it all to get started. Guess what? You don’t.
I discovered these nifty little beauties by watching YouTube. They are by Limo Studio. You can find almost anything on YouTube. They’re handy , lightweight and very easy to use. These are called continuous lights. The reason ( for you lighting newbies) this equipment is called continuous , because the power is turned on continuously. In other words the bulbs do not flash. Easy enough …right?
This type of artificial lighting is the best for videos. You can also use them for photos. However always keep in mind natural light is the best light. If you can sit near a window by all means please do so. It is the most flattering . Realistically there are some cases where using natural light isn’t feasible. What if you recorded a webinar during the evening; when most people are available to attend? You’d need some type of artificial light.
These awesome lights can be considered as a starter kit. They are inexpensive, and very easy to set up. This will be the beginning of improving the looks of your videos. They can also be used with other lighting equipment . The kit includes: Three light stands, 3 bulbs, 3 light sockets , 2 white ( 1 reflector pictured) reflectors. Lastly a carry case for the bulbs and one for the rest of the equipment. You can purchase this kit on http://www.amazon.com for only $55.99. The only suggestion I have is to invest in brighter bulbs. The bulbs that came with the kit are 45 watts. With the reflectors you’d lose some output.
If you are not a professional, but want to produce nicer looking videos , I don’t think the Limo Studio lights will disappoint you. The best part about it, you won’t break the piggy bank!
As a child I had high hopes for my future. At nine years of age, I knew I wanted to be a photographer . Then later ( Young adult) in my life I added midwifery to the list as well. My love for photography is steadfast. There isn’t a moment I don’t think about how I can turn something into an art form from a photo. I see things differently when I look at it. Experts say that people like me are right brained. I’m creative and definitely intuitive.
As for being a midwife. I never became one, but I tried by enrolling in college and studying until 3:00 in the morning. The courses were not so bad. I scored very high in subjects such as, anatomy, English and science. The not- so -easy stuff to most people. However, my math scores …lets just say there wasn’t a score board for me. Often times my scores were ( F t) . Have you ever heard of F plus? That was me. I wanted so much to be a midwife, because I found the reproductive system highly interesting. My goals were to take my photography skills and integrate it with midwifery. Clever huh? Despite how much I tried it didn’t happen. I tried for over 2 years in college, until I was kicked out of college after academic probation. No matter how great my other classes were going, I needed to pass them all. Yes, I could have tried at a later time in life, but life got in the way, got married, had children, grew older and the math side of my brain is completely hopeless. The math side of my brain didn’t shut down. It never opened. I have a reason for my math skills being so low, but thats another blog.
Anywho, my passion for photography is alive and well today. I get the pleasure to photograph women in all situations. However, I do not like nude photography. There is a lot more beauty and appeal in clothes. My genre is beauty and weddings. I’ll find the beauty in any woman and catch it with my lens! I don’t like basic stare( cheese photos) at the camera type images. Although there are times when that type of photography is needed. Such as a family photo or product shot. I’m always thinking the possibility of the photo becoming wall art.
I’m not where I want to be in the field of photography . I’d love it if I got to shoot more weddings and beauty images. It would be a plus be able to have more images framed and hung on the walls of my customers. I’ve been working on my home gallery for years. A dream differed !
Who says you can be anything you want to be? It’s the classic phrase every parent has probably said. There are so many obstacles that can get in the way.
- Family members
- Lack opportunities
I can’t be anything I want to be – but I can be a lot more of who I am already ? A great photographer!
Atlanta is an awesome place. It is full of diversity and culture. There is so much to photograph for tourist. It sounds like cliche today, but everyone likes to get a shot of the Atlanta famous skyline image. It’s a film and tv landmark. You can’t visit Atlanta without getting the picture. It proves you’ve been to see Atlanta. Well, I won’t go that far!
There are so many versions of this image on Google. The fun is in getting your own. Plus you don’t want to face copyright infringements, do you? Get your tripod if you want to blur the cars on the highway or take long shots at night. There is no right or wrong . It is all up to you.
Atlanta was once known as the city of terminus, because it served as the end of the Georgia rail road line. I thought that was pretty cool history. I try to bring a little known fact to most of my blogs. I hope you like that.
Back to the fun stuff. I went out one morning to shoot the skyline in Atlanta. It actually finished raining as I was heading to get the shot. I’ll disclose this is my second time taking a trip to shoot the skyline and probably will not be my last. The first time I used a 50mm prime lens to get the shot. This time I used a kit lens, 18-55mm. For those of you who are still using the kits lens, there is hope for you. Don’t let anyone tell you, it will not work with a kit lens. You’ll bring a different perspective to the table. You must know you camera and how far you can push it. It’s all about knowledge .
It was an over cast sky. I should have used a smaller aperture. I used f/10. The clouds looked like smoke moving through the buildings. Like it or not , I brought a different perspective . The best part of it all was the outing with my family and I own the image.
No, this isn’t about looking 10 pounds lighter for the camera or how to pose. It’s something I believe many women forget whether they are wearing a backless blouse or an wedding gown. I see it all of the time. I would create a thought bubble over my head if I could.
Have you ever notice a bride wearing a lovely wedding gown; from the front the bride looks put together well. Then you see the back of the dress and your eyes are drawn to the distracting bra straps. It’s one of my wedding day pet peeves. Depending on the style of the gown a strapless bra will not suffice either. Please don’t wear the bra with the clear straps. The straps aren’t clear, I see reflection glaring against the skin of the bride.
Moreover, consider how low the back of the gown is designed. Yes, it’s beautiful , but much more flattering without the undesirable straps from a bra. Your goal should be to look absolutely flawless on your wedding day. Take the extra time and money to look for the best suitable under garment for your gown. As soon as you say, “yes to the dress” proceed on the hunt for your perfect brasserie. It may be simple as sewing cups inside your gown. If you are large up top this may not be the solution, but it may work wonders for others.
The solution to looking stunning in your backless wedding gown is a strapless / backless bra. There are so many out there from the cheapest to the most expensive . Adhesive strips are already sewn onto the bra. The more expensive the bra; the stronger the adhesive. With your cheaper bras you may get a few wears out of it before you’d have to trash it. You can wear the pricey ones if they are taken care of properly up to 25 times. Let’s see I’ve worn one on my wedding day, then again for my anniversary. That’s twice. I think it’s worth the money.
More of the brand named bras will come with silicone type sides that stick to your skin. (Be sure to test the silicone on your skin with a 2-4 hour wear test)The way it works is to make sure your skin is dry and free from any lotions or oils. Make sure the silicone tabs aren’t sticking to your clothing. The tabs need to stick directly to your skin. You will want to hold the tabs on your side as if they were normal straps to fasten. Be sure to hold them in an upward position for firm hold. This type of bra will cost around $ 35.00 – $50.00. The cost for beauty is usually greater than anything less.
Your pictures will look amazing! For years to come you will not fret over those unsightly bra straps. Remember this is your special day.
Do you ever think about the spices in your pantry at length? They’re stacked in the pantry staring at you as you open the door. There are a few that you’ve never opened. You just saw a recipe that calls for it and you bought it. You never made the dish! How long ago was that? Did you keep the box? Is the date stamped on the bottle?
Many spices aren’t date stamped, such as drug store the or the ones from Dollar Tree.
McCormick has the date stamped on the bottom of the container. I found this one in my pantry. It reads Best Buy Nov. 26 07. What does that really mean. It’s best buy that date, but does it means it’s expired? Will it make you sick?
A few years after this date it will lose it’s potency. The food will not have the flavor that was intended from your McCormick spice…or any spice. Ground spices will last 3-4 years. This means I should have tossed this around 2011. Honestly when I think of how much this tiny bottle cost; I’m in denial that it has expired.
Before I go on Let me say I’m a fan of McCormick, because it’s gluten free. As a mom of a gluten intolerant child that is comforting to know.
Check your spice rack, it could be hoarding outdated spices. Make a note to clean the pantry as part of your spring cleaning. The sweet smell of apple pie or sweet potato pie doesn’t smell so good; with old nutmeg that has lost it’s kick.
Did everyone from your baker , your friends and family tell you to save the top tier of your cake for your first wedding anniversary? Were you one of those brides whom had a bad experience with frozen cakes? Therefore, you are reluctant to saving the top tier, but you paid a pretty penny for that thing and hate to throw it away. Well, I don’t know about you, but that was me.
Who knew I would try marriage again. Nonetheless do something traditional as save the top tier of my cake for the one year anniversary . Did you know the tradition symbolized recycling to your wedding into the celebration of your first child? It’s also a sentiment of good luck and prosperity. Often times this is done out of sequence. Children come along before marriage.
I’m not saying it’s a good or bad thing; however I can think of many reasons why some things should remain traditional.
My cake was plain and elegant. May I emphasize it was plain. This is the top tier. It looks a little beat up from other items in the freezer pressing against it.
How to Freeze a Cake:
- Wrap it in plastic wrap. ( Preferably brand name)
- Zip it in two freezer bags. ( The good ones; don’t be cheap)
- Try to have a spot in the freezer solely for the cake. ( I didn’t have the space)
It may not look delicious here, but it was more than good. Looking at this image I can smell the fresh butter. Have you ever tasted a cake that tasted better after it’s been frozen for a year? This cake was it girls! The icing was amazing. Typically I expect the icing to taste like food coloring. That old yuk sour taste. No girl, this cake was smooth and flaky. It wasn’t spongy, crunchy, hard, dry…you get the gist. I’m not good with food descriptions. Hats off to all of you food bloggers.
Don’t judge me too harshly on my photo. You see that sliced piece? I literally cut it for my myself. Immediately I dropped it on the plate and ran for the camera. I’m so mushy this way. Memories are important to me. More important than a technically correct photo. Besides as soon as I saw this shot, I thought of my finger prints pressed in the top, from unwrapping the plastic. This is what preserving the memories is all about.
A camera is a tool, they doesn’t actually take pictures, the person behind the lens does. It’s like saying does that car drive well? Ok may be this isn’t a great analogy with the self driving cars in existence.
For instance this shot. It was taken with an entry level camera. A Nikon d3100. The berries are frozen. Here I’m trying to work with a strobe. Artificial lighting is foreign to me. It shows in how drab this shot looks. However I can use this camera to get better images.
What about this one? Taken with the same camera using natural light. I’m not saying it’s a winner, but the composition is better and I won’t get into the rest. I think we can agree it’s better.
Do you see the improvements? With practice and patience it gets better with the same camera. This is still a work in progress. The waffles aren’t as sharp as the berries. When you can see this ( If you are new at photography ) That’s when the knowledge is starting to sink in. Now you know; what you don’t know. Understandably food images are most desire when colorful, has a great composition and the exposure and focus is perfect. The main premise is to make you drool.
A large part of getting great images is achieving the skills.
It’s become frustrating . May be I’m thinking too hard and I should just write and let it flow. Besides I used to do it as a child. I loved writing. No one scolded me for writing run on sentences, or for using repetitive words. The sky was the limit with creativity. I had so much written my English teacher would beg me to stop. I didn’t about the fact my teacher had to grade it for content, creativity, grammar and punctuation. The more I wrote the more the teacher had to read. In essence I was praised for my writing.
Today there are proper steps for a successful blog:
- I have to freaking have a catchy title
- Make my blog scannable…what?
- My blog should be under 1000 words…but I have a lot to say
- Make sure its comprehensive
- Blog often or on a set schedule
Should I stop here?
I started and stopped blogging so many times. I love sharing my experiences, talents and knowledge. Should I stick with a niche? I have a passion for photography, love for cooking, I enjoy given fashion advice ( Especially for men) and one of my pet peeves is a person who doesn’t clean and keep things organized .
With all of this being said, what should I focus my blogs on? Why can’t I share them all? You’re supposed to be here asking me questions. I’ll try and keep them short, capture your attention with great content, use a catchy title. I can’t promise you I want be all over the place.
This random shot doesn’t make any since. It doesn’t have any thing to do with this blog. I know! However, I don’t know what interest you. This is apparent, because you aren’t reading or liking my blogs . As a photography lover, I have tons of images stored. This is my coffee mug, that I used to drink my hot chocolate. If you love photography , I’m sure you’ve seen this mug before. If you haven’t can you click the like button for a starving blogger? Give me some hope.